If you were hit by a bus and you were to depart this mortal earth. What would happen to your emails, your
facebook account, you twitter account?
Does your online presence suddenly
become inactive and your inbox full?
Have you left instructions for your
partner, children, parents or executors to act upon if something was to happen?
Are
your passwords written down somewhere that is easily located?
Have you
even thought about this?
I had an online friend, who had been sick for
sometime, I knew that things weren’t brilliant, but I didn’t expect “D” not to
be around.
I had replied to an email that had been sitting in my inbox
for maybe 2 weeks, I did not receive an immediate reply, which is not unusual
with online friends.
After about 3 weeks, I started trying locate “D”
using the information that I had. I found out that she had belonged to various
groups and subsequently I emailed said groups. I did not receive a
reply.
It must have been about 2 weeks later that I received a reply from
“D’s” daughter saying that “D” was no longer with us and that the email account
would be shut down within a 1-2 week time-frame. I am assuming this was to allow
people like myself to get answers as to why “D” was not responding
emails.
The reply I received was fairly bland, just stating the facts. I
suppose having known “D” online for 2-3 years, I expected something more
personal. I’m not sure, but even now it leaves me sad that I didn’t have a
proper chance to say goodbye – even if it was sending flowers or a card to the
funeral.
I wonder what happened to “D’s” memberships to forums and the
like where she had groups of friends that she knew. I wonder what happened to
people like me – who knew her and we shared to jokes, the good times and the
bad. Was everyone advised of “D’s” demise, or were emails just bounced back when
the email address became inactive?
Have you taken precautions to ensure
that your online friends are advised when there is a problem or when you may not
be able to respond any longer?
Have you shown those that will be responsible
for your affairs after your demise, how to access all your groups and facebook
accounts and say goodbye?
Have you formatted a goodbye?
I have all my URL’s and passwords written down in a notebook, but I haven’t shown, nor
told anyone.
My darling husband has no idea how to switch the computer on
let alone log in and send a message.
My will has a piece of paper inserted, which although not legally binding, tells everyone what I want said and how to get that message out. But certainly something that has to be done
upon my death.
And what happens to my domain names? – are they allowed to
expire and there be no more me on the net – or will in 20-30 years time, people
pursuing the family history only to find references to me that look and perhaps
feel current?
The weirdness of it all – oh what to do?
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